Let’s make a deal, you and I. I’m going to give you a few sexy suggestions to try – I promise I won’t suggest anything too over the top if you promise you’ll give at least one of these a go tonight.
There are several handy ways of sharing this article, so you could even text your partner right now and say: ‘I’ve been taking hints…’
Let them guess what you fancy doing do when they get home.
Porn
There’s nothing wrong with it, people.
Watch some porn – together.
You both have a preference, so why not really explore what you’re both watching?
You can put it on in the background for a little inspiration.
Personally, I turn the sound down as it can get a little offputting.
One rule – pay for it. That’s where the best, non-rapey porn lies, and you can even get it customised.
Take a look at some of the webcamming sites, and pre-arrange with someone you find on there that you want them to tell you what to do.
You can live-stream in privacy whilst they watch or turn your camera off.
The beauty is you could drop them a few suggestions you’re a little too shy to admit out loud.
Sex toys
Set a challenge – you buy a sex toy you want to try, and your partner does the same.
See what kind of present you each come home to.
Remote-control toys
This could be fun if you have an evening out planned.
There are several sex toys which can be controlled by text or app.
So have a date night, but maybe with only one of you in control of the toy.
I hesitate on getting you both to use one at the same time, just in case it turns more into a competition than passion – but there’s nothing stopping you.
Take a chance
Or, what I like to call The F***-it Bucket.
You both write 10 things you would like to do, be it your partner to you, or you to your partner and pull it out like a raffle.
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